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Melinda Meshad's avatar

This is such a large part of what I see as a therapist in a large, secular, and highly capitalistic society. I know that there are answers, but it is so very difficult to fill the void. Psychology seems to offer bandages, but does not get to the existential root. So much of what people say is a spiritual answer as in mindfulness and being present in the moment, does not fill the void of connection and a meaning that is beyond the self. ... not sufficiently in my opinion. So much of the church is ill and supports what is hurting us, the fundamentalists repressing authenticity and favoring males, and so many of us have broken families. Communities are difficult to create or find in large urban centers. Concern for others and empathy is dying in exchange for individualism and the desire for self-satisfaction. Most people don't have jobs that promote the common good and truly help others in ways that they experience. They know down deep they are a cog in a wheel of arbitrariness. So many are secular and are not open to faith. What is the answer? If we just say, believe in Jesus, it does not go anywhere.

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Alan Lyon's avatar

Addiction & modernity make promises they can not keep & weren’t designed to keep. I reference them as being like Mylar balloons, shiny & big on the outside full of air on the inside. They bait us to outer edge of their extremes then we are shamed when we go too far because they have baked in progressive dissolution.

John Elderedge, Jordan Peterson & many other great thinkers have written & lectured on the power of purpose & upward-outward striving. As Elderedge has said, God has an adventurous heart & that heart He placed in us. We were made to be seekers. Addiction & modernity highlights this. All God rejecting modern people are still seeking something that’s greater than just themselves. What I think about a lot is ā€˜Why aren’t they seeking God?’ As He is the provider of what our hearts desire & were made for. I’ve concluded that ā€œchristiansā€ (little ā€œcā€ emphasized) have made it impossible to want to know Jesus & the Father. I’m not talking about the smoke, mirrors & light shows glamour of knowing Jesus, I’m talking about knowing all of Who & What He’s about. Far too many people know about Jesus yet do not know Him, meaning they don’t seek Him & trust Him. There’s no real emphasis on the fact that following Jesus makes our lives better & makes us better at life. The reality is that since most people are seeking something & since those somethings are fulfillment & purpose they are, in the final analysis, seeking Jesus we just look for Him in all the wrong places.

The Good News about seeking true purpose & fulfillment in modernity & addictions is that there is an expiration date & when we reach the end of ourselves Jesus is always there, He’s looking for us just like the prodigal son’s father was looking for him. Our commission is to be there with the Good News of Christ when the pieces do fall because they will & do.

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