Yesterday I shared about how I recently discussed the doctrine called "once saved, always saved" out at the prison. As I wrote, while I do think that the Bible describes "falling away" as a possibility, I deeply appreciate the theological values and pastoral concerns that "once saved, always saved" is attempting to address.
The big thing is a felt sense of security in one's salvation. As I shared, growing up in an Arminian tradition, I didn't have this sense of security. So my spiritual life always crackled with anxiety. A sin scared you, making you feel you'd stepped away from a state of grace. Consequently, you'd rush to pray for forgiveness as a means of "getting clean" again.
All of this creates a sneaky version of works-based righteousness.
Free will traditions will tell you that grace really is a gift, though you do have to "reach out and take it." This "acceptance" of the gift, the exercise of our free will in responding to the offer of grace, is what the Reformed tradition rejects. Because even a choice, that slight bit of human participation, can create room for human boasting. You can see the point. We pat ourselves on the back all the time for making good choices. And blame people for making bad choices. Praise and blame do get attached to our choices. So why wouldn't they do so when it comes to grace? Wanting to eliminate that possibility, the Reformed tradition nullifies the role of the human will in responding to grace. There is no choice, only God's election.
Again, while there are passages in the Bible that do talk about falling away from grace, I appreciate the desire to put a fence around grace, to make the whole of salvation the gratuitous and efficacious work of God. And beyond protecting grace at the initial moment of salvation, the "once saved, always saved" view also protects grace from how beliefs about "falling away" sneak in a works-based righteousness.
Specifically, while free will traditions argue that grace is really is a gift (that you can reject or refuse), they do struggle to keep grace protected throughout the lifespan. As I described above, if you can fall from grace then you have to put in a lot of work to maintain your status as saved. Constant moral vigilance and effort is demanded throughout your life. Simply put, while you might not need to work to get grace, you do need to work to keep it. And it's this effort in keeping grace that sneaks in a works-based righteousness. You're like a little duck swimming on the water. On the one hand, you're saved. You're not drowning. But underneath your little feet are furiously paddling to keep yourself afloat.
The point here is that free will traditions can say, I think legitimately, that the offer of grace is a gift even if you have to accept in an act of will. However, the subsequent possibility of falling from grace sneaks in a works-based dynamic after the fact due to all the effort you have to go through to keep grace secured. That is to say, "once saved, always saved," the doctrine of the perseverance of the saints, isn't just about protecting grace at the start of the journey, by eliminating the human will from the equation. "Once saved, always saved" is also trying to protect grace across the lifespan, cutting off anxious effort to prevent "falling" from grace. The fear of falling creates worried human effort. We might not work to "accept" grace in an act of free will, but our will and effort is most definitely involved in keeping grace.
In short, grace doesn't feel much like grace if it is a fragile, precarious thing.
It seems like the Arminian way makes one certain they are saved, but leaves one vulnerable to possibility that they could lose that salvation without constant vigilance.
The reformed tradition is the mirror opposite. It assures one that that they cannot lose their faith, but leaves one wondering if they ever obtained it in the first place.
After all, if it God's work and we do no participate in it, then how do we know that He has done the work? Feeling? Evidence of a changed life? The fact of faith itself?
I am definitely closer to the Reformed view, having grown up in it and currently attending a conservative Lutheran Church.
It just seems that the Devil will attack wherever he can--regardless of your stance on the Arminian/Reformed debate.
Yes. I grew up Methodist and very much felt that it was on me to stay close to God, that if I fell away He’d let me. So I was the one who had to maintain things. But that led to anxiety, and pride, and a sense of my salvation being ultimately dependent on me. I’ve become convinced that salvation is wholly God, and while I do participate in it, I don’t think it’s helpful to worry about if I’m doing enough. I trust God, and that trust leads me to want to participate in His work in the world and in me.