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Lori Fast's avatar

Oh my gosh, I love this so much. I have found myself praying over the last 10 years or so that “God, you are safe, kind, good,” always leading with safe. Which fits what therapists and social scientists and such say about relationships, that they have to start with safety, that there is no trust if you aren’t safe. But I grew up with the conservative/evangelical world latching onto the “he’s not safe” and making it out that God loves, sure, but he’s also holy and just and has to have his holiness satisfied when we screw up. It’s been a lifetime of experiencing God very differently than what I learned about him when I was younger. This also fits with the 23rd Psalm, in that I never understood how a rod and staff were comforting, until I realized that they were being used to drive away the enemies that would harm me the sheep.

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Melinda Meshad's avatar

Unfortunately this mindset also supports their harsh, and judgmental approach that has turned off so many, and does the opposite of bringing others to hear the gospel. This has become increasingly harsh and unempathic... encouraging and mirroring the political hatefulness we experience. Jesus was a safe place, the evangelical fundamentalists are not. I too grew up in this and know it well.. and have followed the movement to the right, and to this increase in intolerance, turning into a nationalistic religion. I have never heard people be so negative about the christian church as I have of late... and I attribute much of this to the evangelical movement over the past decades. Safety is the root of love.

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