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Carl A. Jensen's avatar

I appreciate the author's discussion of the therapeutic. I see the issue of "affirmation" or "acceptance" of the person (as distinguished from the behavior) as paradoxical.

On the one hand, there's something of unconditional grace about recognizing the value of the person to God. On the other hand, this very acceptance can become a powerful force for helping people to be and behave better than before.

I see this improvement as a hoped for consequence, not as a condition. We all have limits on how much we're able to change, no matter how much we will to.

In therapy/coaching, this acceptance is demonstrated in the moments when the most unacceptable thoughts, feelings, and behaviors are brought to light and the therapist/coach still treats the client as a person of God-given value. In theological terms, "It's your kindness that leads us to repentance, O Lord."

The so-called "therapeutic captivity of the church" so often emphasizes "feel good" message of acceptance and underplays challenges to correct self-defeating and harmful behaviors. What Bonhoeffer called "cheap grace" may sell well, but I think people sense that it distracts from their God-given aspirations to do better. Instead, it can fuel attitudes of entitlement and complacency.

Integrating Law and Gospel is hard enough to do conceptually. It's harder yet to do in practice.

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Dan Williams's avatar

I am still stuck on my “but” from yesterday and previous days. But maybe my “but” is a category error. For me, unless I am missing something, the biggest danger of the “attunement with ontological ground” approach is not whether it avoids being unconsciously ruled by your whims but rather whether it is a form of settling. Attunement with the ontological ground is different than (and, crucially, less than) a personal relationship with the ground-Creator. I feel I am inhabiting a meme, where I am sitting a table in a park with a crudely drawn sign: Prove me Wrong.

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